Humans:Inflictors & Lovers?!

There are no words to describe how I feel about "trust." I can tell you it is something one earns over time. "Trust" is trial and error til' instincts are keen and sharp where bull can be detected from miles away. (Then there is the psychopath.) In that case, study psychology and pray! There are legions of folk that have had there heart broken, bank account snatched, beaten and the list goes on, because trust was the motivating factor. "You know what, I have bit of a time "trusting" folk!" It's because of history. Folk do bad things! Healing thou and what a process!

"I trusted you!" Why would you do this to me?! To us?!"

Those very words are pulsating through the air waves out into the outer most galaxies.
"Hurt" stemming from trust raped is known by the human race if nothing else. And though
"aware" of the pang distrust wounds, folk still continue to willingly inflict others Think about it! Go head! So, what is the problem? Like are humans primitive to a destructive fault or is it a matter of say, control and honesty? Could it be that basic?
Most folk have experienced this cut..but because we are created to love..we still pursue it's high. I wouldn't have it anyway. What can I say..."I am a sucker for love." a lil smarter wit it though.
I remember watching Love&Basketball and being taken in by the scene where Omar & Sanaa were playing against one another. "His heart up for grabs!" That's what we are doing in love; playing against one another for the "real." We all want it. After while the promiscuous becomes bored and the detachment it creates is unsuitable and lacking.

"IT'S DOUBLE OR NOTHING!"     "Be in it to win it!"

Me'Shell NdegéOcello - Fool of Me