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I speculate, “Happiness is doing those things that are meaningful to me.”

Discover those things that are meaningful and do em.

and money brings satisfaction not happiness (duly noted).

Because happiness is something most of us aim for, how we define it has important implications for how we conduct our lives. To see why, compare these two competing definitions of happiness.

I concur that:

Happiness is satisfaction with life as a whole.

On the surface this looks like the same idea but actually it's completely different. Consider the case of Clea Koff, a forensic anthropologist who spent nine years working in Rwanda, digging up the remains of people killed in the 1994 genocide (Bergsma, In press). While this was clearly a gruesome task that would have given most people nightmares, afterwards she explained that the work was meaningful, which made it worthwhile. For Koff, then, happiness was satisfaction that she had done the right thing with her life.

more so than..

Happiness is all about minimising pain and maximising pleasure.

The underlying idea here is that there is a kind of mathematics of happiness. Imagine if on our deathbeds we were able to add up all the moments of pleasure in our lives and then all the moments of pain. The amount by which the pleasures exceeded the pains would tell us how happy we were during our lives.

Reference: Dean, J. (2004). Psyblog. Retrieved from http://www.spring.org.uk/2008/01/what-is-happiness.php